

Many high-capacity women have done the inner work, built meaningful lives and businesses, yet have reached a point where they’re asking for a more fulling way of living, one that truly fits how they’ve evolved.
If there's something within you that wants more joy, more presence, more of life’s magic — even if you don’t have the language for that yet — you're not alone.
This isn’t about doing more, implementing a one-size-fits-all strategy, or fixing yourself.
It’s about making the necessary refinements — so your life, work, and leadership can reflect who you truly are now, with greater clarity, aliveness, and ease.

When Doing "Everything Right" No Longer Works
For many high-capacity women, the challenge isn’t really about doing too much.
It’s about continuing to live from an internal orientation that once made sense — but now quietly limits how fully you can live.
You know how it feels — staying alert, evaluating yourself, being highly attuned to others’ needs. Holding things together in ways that once supported success, but now require constant internal vigilance.
On one level, you're grounded, capable, and self-aware — yet on another, there's a steady inner pressure, and perhaps, a silent fear that relaxing your grip could disrupt something you’ve worked hard to build.
This isn’t something rest alone resolves. It’s the fatigue that comes from living from an identity that no longer fits. When that’s recognized, something softens.
And here’s an important distinction:
This work isn’t about fixing yourself or becoming a better version of who you are.
It’s about refining how you relate to yourself — so your life can reflect who you truly are now.
When that’s recognized, something softens.
- The inner pressure eases.
- Choices become simpler.- And life begins to respond — not to how much you manage or try to improve — but to the clarity that comes from living in alignment with who you are now.
So Much Peace and Doing My Soul's Work...
After working with Elari, I was able to break through the old patterns and beliefs that were holding me back from being the person I came here to be. I now love and believe in myself, and I am doing my soul's work! Thank you, Elari, I appreciate you, and all of your support and guidance.
Laurie Millo
Tequesta, FL
Got Promoted, a New Relationship. It was Easy!
I wanted to tell you again what a difference your program has made for me! I've been promoted, and surpassed all of my goals, and it was easy. I am in a new relationship, recently moved, and just bought another investment property. I am so at ease now. Keep doing what you’re doing; it makes a difference!
Cami
Beckerdite
Nevada City, CA
How I Support The Shift

I am Elari Onawa
I work with capable, caring, spiritually conscious women who are ready to stop living from ways-of-being that no longer fit — and begin living from what's true for them now.
I see what has been silently weighing on you, help you release what was never yours to carry, and support a powerful way of relating to yourself — one that allows you to dance with life with ease and grace.
I bring four decades of experience supporting conscious women, weaving soul-level insight, women-centered coaching, the nature of personal reality, and real-world executive leadership perspective.
What emerges is deep clarity that feels like coming home. Choices feel simpler. The weight on your shoulders dissolves. And a profound sense of self-love returns as you recognize who you are beneath the conditioning that no longer serves you.
What unfolds is a deep sense of relief — a return to yourself, and a beautiful new way to live, work, and create — while meeting you exactly where you are.
So Much Possibility!
I see that possibilities are unlimited. I loved the support, and am so clear now. I really appreciated the shared experiences too! This was such a powerful program and I would recommend it to anyone! Thank you, Elari!
Karen Speights
Norfolk, VA
Here's Your Opportunity
If you are looking to put soul and creativity back into your goals, then here is your opportunity. Elari’s approach merges insights about unleashing the human spirit with practical tools to help you align with your true definition of success!
Ken Foster
CEO Shared Vision Network, Author of Ask and You Will Succeed
Ways to Begin
Continue in the way that feels most supportive to you right now.
Some women begin by reconnecting with me through my soul clarity life purpose session.
Others arrive ready for deeper, ongoing support — personally, professionally, or both.
All paths meet you where you are.
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