Working With Me
Come Home to Yourself — A Better Way to Live, Work and Play
I work with capable, caring women who are ready for a life that fits who they are now.
If you’re here, there’s a beautiful reason. Something in your life or work is asking for attention — not because anything is wrong, but because you’ve changed. Start with the option that feels like the most natural next step — the one that offers the greatest sense of clarity and ease right now.
A Deeply Orienting, One-Session Experience
Sometimes what’s needed most is not a plan — but clarity that brings relief and a clear sense of self.
The Soul Clarity Life Purpose Experience is a single, immersive session designed to help you reconnect with what’s true beneath the noise, expectations, and roles —so you can move forward from a place that feels clear, grounded, and genuinely yours. I help you clearly see what no longer fits and what wants to be honored. Many women come to this experience when they are at a turning point. Many have tried to change their outer world, only to find themselves still feeling that there is something important still calling them forth. Others want to understand the bigger purpose of their lives, so they can feel grounded in something that transcends the roles we take on, and the autopilot and performance-based paradigms that are so prevalent in our culture right now. Some women begin here. Others arrive here later — or not at all. Trust what feels more supportive for you right now.
Personalized Guidance — For Soul Aligned Living
Some seasons call for more than a single moment of clarity — others call for deeper reflection and thoughtful mentoring as you live into what’s calling you forth.
The 12-Week Private Advisory is a relational, soul-level container for women who want ongoing guidance as you navigate meaningful transitions in life, leadership, identity, or direction — and who value moving at a pace that feels intentional, grounded, and sustainable. You don’t need to have everything figured out before you begin. You don’t need a perfect plan or a polished vision, unless you genuinely want one. What matters is a quiet readiness to orient your life around what feels truly aligned now — and a desire for consistent space to reflect, recalibrate, and move forward with confident clarity. In this advisory space, we slow things down enough to hear what’s actually true for you. Together, we identify what no longer fits, soften patterns that quietly recreate pressure, and support decisions that feel clear, self-honoring, and deeply aligned — not rushed, reactive, or performative. Over time, deep clarity and graceful purpose become part of your daily way of navigating life. Relief comes not from escape, but from coherence. A sense of peace and confidence deepens as your choices begin to align with who you are now — and forward movement unfolds naturally, without force of pressure.
Heart and Soul of Your Business
Where your work supports the life you want to live.
The Heart & Soul of Your Business is a dedicated container for heart-centered entrepreneurs who want their business to reflect who they are now. This is not about pushing harder, scaling faster, or forcing visibility. This is about coherence and your natural rhythm.
It’s about letting your business reorganize around your soul truth, values, and sustainable energy — so it can grow in a way that feels honest, nourishing, and steady.
Here, we look at your business as a living expression of you: your message, your model, your rhythm, and your relationship with visibility and value. As alignment deepens, confidence organically expands, decisions feel simpler, and momentum arises gracefully — without burnout, self-sacrifice or getting caught in loops of perfecting. This is a space for deep clarity, coherence, and integrity — so your work can support the life you truly want to live.
In Their Words ...
These reflections offer a glimpse into how this work is experienced. Every woman’s journey is different and reflects their unique timing, rhythm and path.
Doing My Soul's Work
After working with Elari, I was able to break through the old patterns and beliefs that were holding me back from being the person I came here to be. I now love and believe in myself, and am doing my soul's work! Thank you, Elari, I appreciate you, and all your support and guidance.
Confidence & Inner Power
I have more power and confidence, and feel so supported. Things I didn't even think were possible are now possible. I am amazed by how much wonderful stuff is showing up in my life now!
More Than I Hoped For
This was even more than I hoped for. I now have powerful tools for living with purpose from my beautiful new vantage point! Elari is especially gifted at bringing unique awareness to each individual. I now have deep enthusiasm and appreciation for the person I am. For those on a similar journey, I highly recommend the experience of this program. I give it a rating of a sky full of stars!
Karen
Ezell
Omaha, NE
Highly Recommend
Working with Elari is amazing. If you are questioning anything in your life, she will help you find answers.
Her methods and tools help guide you through the process of making true changes in your life. I highly recommend working with her!
Meghan
Rogacki
Eugene, OR
Fulfilled and Truly Thriving
If you want to connect with soul-centered goals and authentic prosperity, Elari's your resource. Take the challenge, make a difference and align with your most inspiring goals.
Cheryl Blossom
Institute For Inspired Living
A Life Changer!
So much growth in so many ways. As you work with Elari, you'll discover aspects of yourself that will surprise and liberate you. Enjoy what you're about to discover
Melanie Brown
Norfolk, VA
Brings Out the Best in You
Your ability to see what really matters to you, and to live from that understanding, is what brings out the best in you. It’s the foundation of a happy and fulfilling life. Elari shows you how to unlock your true potential.
Brian Tracy
Author: the Way to Wealth
Amazing Inner Power
I wanted to tell you again what a difference your program has made for me! Since working with you, I've been promoted, and surpassed all of my goals, and it was easy. I am in a new relationship, have recently moved, and just bought another investment property. I am so at ease now. Keep doing what you’re doing; it makes a difference!
Cami Beckerdite
Nevada City, CA
Hi, I'm Elari Onawa
Why This Work Feels Different
Since 2003, I’ve supported capable, caring women who have accomplished a great deal — and yet reach a moment where they can feel that what they thought they wanted … or what they thought they needed to do … can no longer be sustained.
Before my work became what it is today, I spent two decades in corporate environments, ultimately serving in C-level leadership roles. I was successful by all the conventional measures — consistent promotions, increasing responsibility, a big salary, a level of achievement many people spend their lives working toward. Like you, I could handle the demands. I was good at what I did.
And yet, over time, it became clear that the life I had once wanted, no longer met my values or my deeper needs. I didn’t leave because I couldn’t manage the pressure. I left because I could no longer ignore that something essential was missing.
About a year after starting my business, I remember sitting alone in my office one afternoon, realizing that even with full autonomy — control over my schedule, my work, my environment — the same inner longing was still there.
The sense that something was missing hadn’t gone away, even though I had changed the outer conditions.
It was in that quiet moment that a simple truth became clear:
I wasn’t just looking for better methods or new circumstances ...
I was looking for ME.
That realization shapes everything I do.
So, my work is not about clearing an endless list of wounds, or helping you become someone new. Instead, this work creates a sacred space for you — to make the necessary refinements — to release ways of being that no longer fit — so your life and work can move forward, from who you are now, not who you once thought you had to be.
I bring decades of experience, deep soul-level insight, extensive expertise in highly-effective modalities, and a grounded understanding of how personal reality is actually shaped.
As an expert advisor, I can help you find deep clarity, aliveness, and a sustainable, soul-nurturing way to live, work, and play. I can help you remember YOU.
With love,
Elari
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